Guest post by Russell and Daiza Smith, Reston, Va.
We had the privilege of helping support Regina in Zambia through ChildFund in the 1990s. This past winter, my wife and I were planning a business trip to Lusaka, Zambia, and we wondered if it might be possible to find Regina, now that 12 years had passed. We knew she had originally lived in a small town, but we thought she had moved to Lusaka when she left the ChildFund program at age 18.
We contacted the ChildFund office in Lusaka. The personnel there advised us that it would be difficult to find Regina. They would try to locate her, but we shouldn’t get our hopes up.
It had been such a rewarding experience to help support Regina between 1991 and 1999. The first we saw of her was a black and white photo; she was age 11 and wearing a little torn dress. She had this look on her face like she might have an attitude (or didn’t want to have her picture made). We would exchange letters and pictures from time to time, and gradually her look softened.
One year, we wanted to do something special; so we sent some extra money, which was enough to get a bicycle for her and some goats for her family. We came to love Regina almost like a member of our family. When she got to the end of the ChildFund program, we provided funds for her to enter a one-year program to learn a profession. We understood she had entered school in Lusaka in 1999, and there the news ended.
We were happy to hear from ChildFund in January that they had located Regina. In February we traveled to Lusaka to give a seminar. ChildFund scheduled a meeting and sent a van to pick us up at the hotel. We didn’t know what to expect. Would Regina be living in some desperate and unsafe circumstances? Would she be held down by a low standard of living or health problems? Would she even remember us?
We were escorted by Violet Mwansa of ChildFund and her driver on a trip to the neighborhood compound where Regina was living on the outskirts of Lusaka. She had walked a quarter mile down the road to meet us and took us to her home and into her living room. It was pretty unbelievable to meet Regina, and it was gratifying to see she had made a successful and happy life for herself. The neighborhood was a safe place with children playing outside. Her small house was a well-constructed residence with comfortable furniture. She had three of the most beautiful children we have seen, ages about one to 14. Her husband, a driver for a church group called “The Brothers,” was obviously a solid person, a good father and a good provider.
We were just overwhelmed with happiness when we saw how well Regina had done in her family, her husband and her life. In the brief 45 minutes we were together, there were a lot of hugs and some tears.
Regina said she thought we had just forgotten her after she left the ChildFund program. We would never forget her. And we were relieved to see what a happy person she is and what a good life she has made for herself.